They’re egotistical, arrogant and many other things. They’ll never admit that they have a soft side unless the girl is their family, best friend or someone they trust. To me, they are mysteriously inconsistent and somehow KMS guys are known to be dawdlers of the worst kind. Not the type of people male or female, that I like. Sometimes these KMS guys think that girl’s opinions don’t matter or in this case, the TESL girls. Just because we’re not doing any science stuff or mathematical stuff so that means, I guess, to them that we have no brains. If we berate them, they ignore us. Put in an opinion, no response. All in all…exasperating.
I guess I won’t fault the guys themselves. I fault their upbringing. Why? Not all the KMS guys are like I said above. Thank you very much. Some of them are just the best sort of male friend a girl could have. No offense but most of the ENGINEERING BATCH 8 guys are total donkeys in a more colourful word.
What brought this raving on? I watched television. Nur Kasih. A story about a girl who loved her husband so much that she does not mind that he left her and has given her no news for 4 years. He had married another girl but then when he returned back to see his parents after 4 years, he is afraid to tell the whole truth because he had never told his family that he has two wives and had left his secondwife without any reason for 4 years.
The guy is dumb, the girl waiting for the guy? Hopeless case. I never liked guys who are afraid of the truth. Why would you hesitate if it is the truth? True, the truth may and will hurt but the truth hurts far, far less than a lie. A lie hurts badly and we will feel betrayed. Betrayal in my part means goodbye forever. You cannot be a friend let alone someone special because in friendship, trust is the core of all relationships.
The story on TV? Well, I hypothesize the story will show that the husband loves the second wife more. Fine. So first wife tries to attract her husband’s attention when he is not being fair (i.e: in dividing attention). It will then turn the first wife into a sort of villain so the husband can see how good and self-sacrificing his second wife is and he never should have left her in the first place so he leaves his first wife (or most likely, divorce her) to be with his second wife. You know…typical Malay sob sob story that I usually find unnecessarily stupid because villains of the story are usually portrayed as beyond help or if it is this type of story, is a lot less to her rival.
Mr Director or Story Writer. For goodness sake, women are not that dumb! Even if the guy portrayed is blind he is actually in the wrong because he is not dividing his attention between wife as fair as possible. Love cannot be divided fairly, true, but treating a wife fairly is written down in the Koran for goodness sakes.
Well, it is true then ‘Hell hath no fury over a woman scorned’.
Me? I pick my roses wherever I may. I’m still single and merry.
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